Embracing Simplicity in Complex Lives

Simple is the new Complex

Simple is the most complex word out there. We get advice many times that we need to keep everything simple, but how hard it is? It is hard when we interact with other people who have different thought processes and beliefs. It can just be the play of time that we call it fate. It is like a forbidden fruit concept. Being civilized and morally responsible, it is difficult to forget the path that has not been taken and can never be taken.

Race against the time

Life goes on, before we know it, cyclical seasons would have raced with each other to get the prime spot. The weight of the decision that we take does not seem impactful at the time but definitely when it matures, and we need to live with the consequences of that decision. I wonder why decision making is not taught in the educational system as widely as it should be. The look that comes on automatically when we know that this cannot be done for whatsoever reasons, and we want it carries deep depth.

Me and mine

I couldn’t write for some time because of health conditions and on the bright side I got to evaluate what is more important and who all are more important. Teachings can come in many forms one of that is health issues. Lot of pain, anguish is part of the process but if we could take a breath and look away, we see what matters most to you at the time where we are totally vulnerable and dependent on someone.

Be unique

In this simple example, many things are at play and if one can balance most of the days with minimal disruptions then it is a really good bond. It definitely changes the perspective and helps us understand material things or money are not as important as we thought. Values, situations and personality are what makes a person a unique person. It is imperative that we do not resort to judging others because we don’t know what kind of issues and responsibilities that person is enduring.

Mind the Balance

I am believer in a balanced everything, if possible, but sometimes emotions are such strong force it becomes difficult to keep everything simple. Again, to have everything in a life balanced out of a spreadsheet is merely impossible. Taking care of oneself is the utmost help that we can do for the society by trying to keep decisions simple wherever possible. For example, Courts decide on the divorce of married couple as cases based on the efficacy of balancing the scales rather than the agony each one has to go through during the married period. It just makes sense for Courts to make a decision that balances scales – Simple, isn’t it? On the flip side, marriage certificates are provided based on the assurance that couple is going to start a long and happy partnership. Again simple.

Enjoyment

Recently I saw someone who danced their hearts out as if no one was watching and that is a very wonderful thing to do. Everyone should enjoy the way that want to by being within the law of the land. Some were happy to just stand across the aisle and look into those amazing scenes. Some moved away into the shadows not to get disturbed by the light and the sound. Some vendors were in hope of getting some business. All are happy when society lets them do what they prefer doing without causing trouble to others who choose a different way to be happy.

Sage concept

I solidified my understanding of few of things over last few weeks and summary of those look somewhat as below

• Do no judge others, everyone is correct in their own way.
• Know who and what is important to you.
• Try to keep things simple and keep trying.
• Somethings are not meant to happen; accept gracefully.
• Be kind to people not as choice but as a way of life

After certain reflection, I know people are not always as they seem so give a chance. It is nice to write after many days and glad I could do so.

Thank you, Until I write again, Take Care.